- I will lose 20 pounds
- I will exercise once a day
- I will run a marathon four months from now
- I will never eat sugar again...
For example, this year I have made a resolution to write down a few things I am grateful for everyday. As a new mom, I find that I don’t have a lot of quiet time to think and reflect, so this has helped me to appreciate all the amazing things that happen in a day. Even after a few days, reading the entries has been incredibly uplifting and empowering.
I also have physical goals as I am now five months post-partum, and healthy living is important to me. But these goals include the word ‘try,’ as in, ‘try to get to stroller fit’ 3 out of 4 sessions a month, rather than ‘I will make every class’. The first option gives me room to breathe without feeling like I failed. It also means that I am more likely to stick with it rather than give up after missing a couple classes.
So this year, why don’t you try to mix it up a little? For every physical, healthy eating goal you have, write an emotional goal for yourself as well. It will help balance your resolution ‘plate’ and give you an opportunity to take time for yourself, something that seems to get lost in the day to day!
I hope 2015 is a year full of peace, learning and growth!
~ Sioned, PEDAW Committee Member